[新手群选修]第二十二讲:7月12日《亲子阅读中的讨论与互动》下--课后作业请跟贴

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[新手群选修]第二十二讲:7月12日《亲子阅读中的讨论与互动》下   

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    讲师:三三爸爸，@深圳小刀，三叶草故事家族论坛读书版版主，资深义工，资深书虫，童书爱好者，儿童阅读推广人，深圳市少儿图书馆荣誉馆员。热爱读书，努力思考，乐于分享。   

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     在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
  

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142-深圳乐妈
在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
  在与孩子共读时的过程中，我只是一个陪伴者，给孩子温暖的怀抱、亲切的声音，当然还可以充当一下引导者，以前我很喜欢用自己成人的眼光、思路去影响她对绘本故事内容的看法，后来发现孩子虽然喜欢听妈妈讲故事，但好像很怕我提问，后来，我就变得“懒一点”就是讲故事，宝宝反而主动要求讲故事了，而且在讲的过程中也喜欢讲话了，原来没有负担真的才是享受。
  尊重孩子，让孩子多观察，相应孩子的要求，只要不过分。我只是一个讲故事的陪读者。

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374-深圳-皖琼妈
     在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
我想家长主要是观察、倾听，然后站在孩子的角度考虑和沟通反馈。每个孩子都是上天赐予父母的礼物，是天使，作为父母我没有权力主导孩子的人生，她有自己的思想和生活模式，也许我可以一定程度上去影响她，但我希望是一些健康的生活方式和良好的行为习惯方面，至于孩子的天性、方向，她会自然而然发展。我希望能作为一个理性的妈妈倾听和观察她，体谅她，与她沟通方方面面，当然也要做一个感性的妈妈全身心爱她，付出我的温暖，给她满满的幸福感和快乐感。

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462-北京-洋洋妈

在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？

孩子还小，没有实战讨论经验。个人看来，成人在讨论中的作用：1. 抛砖引玉。通过大人对于图画书的体会，甚至疑问，引发出孩子的看法，引导孩子思考。从讨论中成人可以了解孩子的精神世界。2. 补充。孩子有些地方不明白，或者理解错误，家长可以提出自己的看法。3. 让书本上的东西内化，吸收，变成我们家长和孩子自己的，让我们成为绘本中的众生百态，进而指导自己的精神之路。暂时想到的就这么多。

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       在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？

       与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，我都是协助角色，正如育儿一样，以孩子为主，我只是陪伴者，协助者，而非主导者。孩子读书，有他自己的思想，有他独特的见解，我用心听，了解他的想法，而不以对错论英雄。特别是读图方面，真的是孩子带领着我去发现。在互动的时候，孩子喜欢和我演绘本，他也是主导者。我挺享受这样的协助角色。
       我选择协助孩子，因为他自己的人生路，是他自己做主的，我只是提供一定的帮助。生活中大小事都如此，属于他自己的事情，我不主导。我只能主导自己的人生。

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010-佛山-西瓜

       在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？

       与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，我都是协助角色，正如育儿一样，以孩子为主，我只是陪伴者，协助者，而非主导者。孩子读书，有他自己的思想，有他独特的见解，我用心听，了解他的想法，而不以对错论英雄。特别是读图方面，真的是孩子带领着我去发现。在互动的时候，孩子喜欢和我演绘本，他也是主导者。我挺享受这样的协助角色。
       我选择协助孩子，因为他自己的人生路，是他自己做主的，我只是提供一定的帮助。生活中大小事都如此，属于他自己的事情，我不主导。我只能主导自己的人生。

422-青岛-笑含妈

422-青岛-笑含妈
在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
孩子现在不到5岁，不认字。一般我的任务就是给他读。之前会把我的理解强行给她，不管她能不能理解。现在我会根据她的提问再给她解释。对于一本书，孩子不一定像大人一样关注这本书的内容，中心思想，或者人生道理。她可能对图上的一个东西很感兴趣，然后对你问东问西，这个时候把孩子感兴趣的认真的解释给孩子听就可以了。

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225-北京-添添妈
在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
个人认为成人最主要的任务是引导、倾听与观察，写的太多了，因为实在不知道该取舍哪一个，认为这些都很重要。引导，孩子对于这个世界的认知有限，所以家长需要在这个过程中需要引导，有一定的知识教育和问题的思考，引导孩子如何去看到问题，思考问题，这是很重要的。倾听，要注意孩子的表达，孩子是如何认知书中的故事，他的思考是什么，从而能够更好的去引导；还有一个很关键的就是观察，孩子的肢体表达等，观察孩子在其他地方是否会有同样的表现等，在日常生活中如何表现。只有做到这几点，才能更好的将孩子的现实生活与阅读中的情境结合起来，孩子才能能更深刻的体会，也是亲子阅读的好的延伸。只有与孩子感受相同的互动和讨论才能更有意义，这也是亲子阅读不同所在，因为我们最了解自己的孩子，最了解孩子的状态和感受，这是别人无法替代的，最知道孩子需要的是什么。