[新手群选修]第二十二讲:7月12日《亲子阅读中的讨论与互动》下--课后作业请跟贴

鉴明妈

678-珠海-鉴明妈

     在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？

    我一直以为，给孩子读故事书或是孩子看书，成人的任务就是给孩子做一个合理的解释，把故事的情节、发展和结果讲给他听，他知道这个故事讲什么就行了。自参加了培训课才发现自己的想法和做法太简单，直接影响到孩子的阅读兴趣、阅读能力、想象能力及理解思考能力。亲子共读也是一门大学问。
    听了三爸的讲座，细看了大家的跟贴作业，尤其是多爸的作业，是值得我思考和学习的。针对自家的孩子 ，我需努力做到的是：
    1、让孩子觉得动脑筋是非常有意思的事情；
    2、让孩子能够表达自己的观点，无论说的对不对，都没关系。大人是不会笑话孩子的；
    3、让孩子尝试去翻读以往看过的书，发现以前没有发现的乐趣，鼓励他说出自己他所看到、感觉到的，用他的方式表达出来，大人耐心地倾听他诉说。
    4、努力提高自身的阅读理解能力。

我爱读故事

334-珠海-乐妈
留下一个思考题：在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
成人最主要的任务是倾听和适当的引导，听孩子对书中的内容的看法，听他的兴趣点，听他的想法延伸，听他的疑惑，根据他的言论，成人能更了解孩子的想法和需求，成人可以做适当的引导，在他自己的想法基础上，进行一些引导，就如上节课说到的，我们不能太强势的灌输自己的思想，不能束缚住孩子的想象力和创造力，这个度的把握，需要不断的修炼，正如老师所说“我们自己拥有多少，决定了我们能给孩子多少”。

朗娃妈

167-浙江-朗朗妈
在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
我认为是认真地听孩子讲。我儿子属于爱说的那种，生活中有什么新奇事都要跟我们说说“嘿，妈妈，我跟你说……”。每天晚上关灯睡前是我们固定的聊天时间，这个时间段里，他会先问我“妈妈，你今天单位里发生了什么事呀”，等我讲述完，他也会把学校的学习生活向我复述。同样，在亲子共读时、平时生活中，他也会将一些绘本中的情节拿出来表演一番，或是讲述一些。我觉得对于学龄前的孩子，他的讨论不是会很深入的，但他会就一些画面的细节、故事情节发表一些体会，甚至有时只是模仿一个动作，这样就足够了。因为这些小小体会足以证明他是喜欢这本书的，不喜欢的书讲过一遍他就不会要求再讲。

3yecaomoon

448-珠海-雨涵妈
在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
我认为在三爸的讲课里面其实都提到了，首先在此之前建立亲密互信的亲子关系，其次才能用各种方式进行鼓励式的引导，让孩子在讨论中（后）能愿意说，慢慢由少得到多，尽量减少大人对孩子意见的评价或者纠正，之所以这样认为，也是因为从我家孩子的反应来看，肯定是以前发生过不太正确的干预，以至于现在讲故事过程中(后)孩子都不是很愿意进行评价或者讨论，不过我相信慢慢改善之后，孩子会越说越多的。
我们家以前的情况就是，基本上讲完故事，很少会做进一步交流讨论，除非遇到她自己觉得很有趣的环节，就会要求将这个情节来个真人秀。但是讨论，她不是很愿意，通常对于阅读中插入的讨论或者提问，她的反应也都是“你先往下读嘛”“你就念书上的字好了，其他的不要说了”，这个我自认为是引申作的不好的缘故，所以孩子对这方面没啥兴趣，没有表达的欲望，没有受到过这方面的鼓励，只想快点听完故事。

嘉嘉妈

458+珠海+嘉嘉妈
在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
    在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务配合和引导，因为在讨论与互动中成人必须充当好辅助者，配合孩子进行讨论，与孩子进行情感交流，让孩子充分的发表自己的观点；成人除了做好听众，还有就是要正确引导孩子对认知的指导，引导孩充分的进入角色，发挥想像力，促进阅读的兴趣；最重要的是，以孩子为本，給孩子自由，可以随意变化，让孩子爱阅读，享受阅读所带來的乐趣和成长。

koko215

802-杭州-清水年年
做好观察者，倾听者，引导者。
观察孩子的情绪以及反应，倾听孩子的理解和表达，引导更广阔的空间或者更有深度的空间，激发思维的激荡。

sujing_1217

225-北京-添添妈
在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
个人认为成人最主要的任务是引导、倾听与观察，写的太多了，因为实在不知道该取舍哪一个，认为这些都很重要。引导，孩子对于这个世界的认知有限，所以家长需要在这个过程中需要引导，有一定的知识教育和问题的思考，引导孩子如何去看到问题，思考问题，这是很重要的。倾听，要注意孩子的表达，孩子是如何认知书中的故事，他的思考是什么，从而能够更好的去引导；还有一个很关键的就是观察，孩子的肢体表达等，观察孩子在其他地方是否会有同样的表现等，在日常生活中如何表现。只有做到这几点，才能更好的将孩子的现实生活与阅读中的情境结合起来，孩子才能能更深刻的体会，也是亲子阅读的好的延伸。只有与孩子感受相同的互动和讨论才能更有意义，这也是亲子阅读不同所在，因为我们最了解自己的孩子，最了解孩子的状态和感受，这是别人无法替代的，最知道孩子需要的是什么。

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在与孩子共读时的讨论与互动中，成人最主要的任务是什么？你为什么这样认为？
孩子现在不到5岁，不认字。一般我的任务就是给他读。之前会把我的理解强行给她，不管她能不能理解。现在我会根据她的提问再给她解释。对于一本书，孩子不一定像大人一样关注这本书的内容，中心思想，或者人生道理。她可能对图上的一个东西很感兴趣，然后对你问东问西，这个时候把孩子感兴趣的认真的解释给孩子听就可以了。